I am because you are
Think lovingly, give lovingly, receive lovingly
People reflect your inner speech - the stories we tell ourselves, and the vision we uphold in our mind's eye every day. If you think loving, abundant thoughts - people can sense it and will reflect that to you! The same goes for the opposite - if you think scarce, selfish thoughts - you will repel people.
This can be hard for some because we've been raised to think a certain way and certain thought patterns are embedded in our subconscious. Luckily, we were given a conscious mind that can program our subconscious. So make the conscious effort to think lovingly, to be more understanding, and to think in abundance. Watch how the universe and people around you reflect your new ideal.
A verse from Philippians 4:8 NIV:
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.
Midjourney prompt: two black humanoid blobs pointing at eachother, white background, grainy, ethereal --niji 5